Read: You know something is right for you, but you have that character on your shoulder saying “No.” Why though? You’ve been through so many experiences that you don’t even know what you want at this point. You’re hiding out from your own truth. You are so lost in your own substance that you cant tell the real anymore.
How many times have we felt that something was so great? Only to imagine how it could be ruined and then ruin it ourselves? I’ll be honest, I’ve done this myself. Not once but numerous times. I’ve been to the point that I thought I needed so desperately to protect myself that I’ve had to guard every inch of feelings I have.
The past should not define us. This should not represent the way we act in future relationships. I have fallen victim to treating the wrong people right, and the right people wrong. Do not do to others that you do not want done to you. Once you fall into that bracket you become the same person who hurt you. It is not okay to take another persons emotions and smother them because you are hurt.